“A pessimist sees the difficulty in every opportunity; an optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty.” –Winston Churchill
Naïve Optimism; Healthy Cynicism; Simple Reality; Spirited Hope; Truth.
People who cannot generate their own happiness or dreams are not on my Holiday Card List. Just the idea of being around such dark energy gives me the heebie-jeebies. “Why?” you ask. Simple. They expect you to divert your time, energy and resources to them so they can accomplish what’s on their agenda. Your happiness and dreams are not relevant. You are not relevant. Well, except for the time, energy and resources you can provide. Therefore, you as a person are not ‘seen’ or respected. You are ‘seen’ only as a means to their end.
How do you know you are in a relationship with a energy-leech? Tell them you need to spend some time working towards your own dreams. Tell them you are going to start spending you energy elsewhere. Tell them you can’t pay their bills anymore. Watch their reaction. If they throw up a big fuss or lay a huge guilt trip your way, get rid of the fuckers.
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