“Forgive me my nonsense, as I also forgive the nonsense of those that think they talk sense.” –Robert Frost
A lovely lady and I were dancing one night. I was having a great time. She leans towards me and says loudly, “We only have --.” I lean closer to her and say, “Excuse me?” and indicate I did not hear her. She repeats herself, this time louder. “We only have BDSM sex.” I freeze for a few seconds, process what she just said, shrug, go back to dancing and continue having a great time.
The statement took me aback. What does BDSM sex mean to her? Does her Master realize what she told me? How does this relate to the poly talks we’ve been having? I figure, when the time comes they’ll ask me if I have questions about such an odd comment. So time goes by. I’ve been to their place before. At that time, I was ready to hop into the sack. Yet she said, “No. It’s not the right time.” He said he always defers to her decision. The next time I go to their place I’m totally into the hockey game and stay planted on the couch.
It was the last time I went over to their place. It really was the last time we all three sat down and talked. And they never did explain what that comment had to do with poly. My intuition told me it is what she says to other dominates to start a conversation about having me change my FetLife profile to ‘Switch’, add a D/s relationship tag that I am subordinate to them and then make available to them any slave, submissive or play partner I may have or consider. There was no overt announcement or suggestion made to me. I was strictly my intuition talking to me as I sat and meditated over that very simple statement: “We only have BDSM sex.”
And if I were to tell you (as Paul Harvey would say) ‘The Rest of the Story’, I could fill another two blog entries! However what I want to say with this entry is this: Sometimes when people say nonsense things, it really is nonsense.
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