July 29, 2011

"As any old Taoist walking out of the woods can tell you, simple-minded does not necessarily mean stupid." –Benjamin Hoff

When people discuss the beginner’s mind they also talk about the practice of sitting.  And being.

I was recently asked at a kinky event, “So, what do you do?”  My immediate response was, “I be.”  It was the first thought that came to me.  The gentleman smiles at me and says, “Of course, but what do you do here?”  I list out several of the ‘services’ I am willing to perform as a Top.  This is the start of a traditional negotiation.

This past weekend I had a small bit of pre-arranged scheduling for scenes.  However, that was the exception.  I did my best to stay in a simple, fun, unplanned state-of-mind.  I succeeded!