“One does not become fully human painlessly.” -- Rollo May
Set limits. Disclose. Act. Reflect. Restate. Disclose. Act. Reflect. Restate. Act. Ad infinitum.
This “Deming Cycle” is one of many paths to growth and exploration. What I appreciate is it acknowledges the relationship with self is an enduring one.
I do not want a “one scene” relationship with my slaves. By “one scene” I mean when the slave is only willing to relinquish control to me when it suits them or when they believe there is a payoff in the near future. These types of relationships are fleeting. I want a commitment of self. Ad infinitum.
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